Nothing to love about The Love Shack

By Jim Osterman | Monday, March 3, 2008, 08:51 AM
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution

Sex had a good run last week - as a topic in the news, I mean.


A church in a Florida publicly encouraged its married members to engage on conjugal gymnastics every day for a month. It had something to do with celebrating the joys of matrimonial life — and I’m guessing a few couples may have bolted for home before the offering plate was passed.

Closer to home, one of our sister cities to the north won a round in an ongoing legal battle to chase The Love Shack, purveyor of so-called adult merchandise, out of town. I smell an appeal in the air and once again wish I’d gone to law school because the lawyers are the true winners in these things. But back to sex.

By my count we have one strip club and two adult bookstores in the confines of our little burg, and this mightily offends many of our citizens. I’m offended as well, but for a different reason than most.

It offends me that there is enough local trade for these places to be profitable enough to remain open. Want to usher businesses like this out of Sandy Springs? Don’t dump it in the city council’s lap and hope they can concoct some law. Don’t picket or circulate petitions. Don’t form a coalition of concerned clergy and feminist groups. The solution is much easier.

Starve the rascals to death.

We may be loath to admit this, if there weren’t enough of us slapping down our dollars in these stores and clubs they wouldn’t exist. And, yes, I understand that not everyone patronizing these places is a Sandy Springsteen, but guess what? They aren’t staying open because people are coming from all over the metro area to get their thrills in our city.

In case you haven’t noticed, Sandy Springs is not the only place in metro Atlanta where you can buy sexually explicit videos or watch ladies dancing naked. So if these places are showing a profit the bulk of it is coming from the locals.

And until we shut off the faucet these places will be alive and well on Roswell Road. Maybe if we learned to respect each other, and have a little more reverence for sex, it would be a good start. Maybe then these places would lose their allure.

Perhaps that Florida pastor has it right — we’d be better served if sex was taken out of the retail/entertainment arena and put it into church. I’m not sure it necessarily belongs there, but it would be a big step up from where

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By Tom

March 3, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

In short…..

The complainers aren’t buying, and the buyers aren’t complaining.

If you want to drive a store selling legal adult merchandise out of business, do it the American way….

Open a competitor with better selection and prices. Duh.

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By C

March 3, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

There are 3 strip clubs, and three adult bookstores in Sandy Springs. Know your town and know your porn before writing.

By TNG

March 4, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

So there are these people who buy stuff there but hate the place? That’s a brilliant deduction - you’re a freakin’ genius Jim. HAHAHA!

By Harold

March 4, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

Sound like somebody need some more action in they own bedroom so they stop worryin about the bedrooms of others! Mine your own business, dummy!

By Katie

March 4, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

Oh my god, sex is bad!! please, everyone does it. If you don’t like the love shack, don’t shop there—it really is THAT simple. All you bible thumping morons need to get over yourself.

By robo

March 4, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

What’s new? Sex sells. Always has and always will.

By Troy

March 4, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

The patrons are all of us from Cobb coming across the river to Sandy Spings!

By No Dawgs Here

March 4, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

OK. I got an idea. Those that oppose China, go and protest outside all the Wal-Marts.(IE; China’s #1 customer) Those that don’t believe in god, go and hold up “God is a lie” banners outside all the churches. Some people really just need to get a life. Geez… Protest this protest that. It’s a business. Not anything else. If you don’t like it, go somewhere else. I don’t like to eat at Sonny’s BBQ, does that mean I can hold up signs and try to close them down? I agree some radical “Bible thumpers” need to do less judging and let he that can only judge do the judging.

By Patrick

March 4, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

You forgot about Mardi Gras Gentleman’s club in Powers Ferry Landing. It’s well hidden behind some trees on a hill, but it’s in Sandy Springs as well.

By Keon

March 4, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

It’s ridiculous…

If they are not violating the law then I don’t see a problem. I’m sure there can be some sort of compromise. I can understand not wanting a place like this in view of children. I recall that was a problem before if I recall. Cover the windows, have the entrance facing the back etc… Tax revenue is tax revenue!

To my understanding you can’t have a business of this nature near a house of worship or a place where children congregate(school, daycare etc..) You also can’t have vulgar displays in the window. If these things are being done then what’s the problem?
I wish I could have one in my neighborhood…actually I prefer Southern Nights and Insurrections!:)

These store fulfill a need/want and attempting to say they don’t is ridiculous!

By bameroni

March 4, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this

I’m sorry; at least these places pay taxes that support “your” community and the local church and church-related organizations do not.

By Ryan Tucker

March 4, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

Sandy Springs happens to be in America. And in America we get to shop where we want. We also get to protest where we want. I don’t care if the bible-thumping idiots want to protest, I just hope they realize it’s a waste of time.

By Now ain't that sumthin'

March 4, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

All of this talk of the Love Shack is making me horny!

By Now ain't that sumthin'

March 4, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

All of this talk of the Love Shack is making me horny!

By Lost

March 4, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

Can some one give me directions to the Love Shack. My pastor is fresh out of lube.

By JPW

March 4, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

Oh my god!! What a people choose to buy to use in there own house is no concern of anyone else. If people want to buy videos, toys, joke gifts, and so on who cares.

People act as if a woman buying a vibrater is buying an M-16. Change your mindset! One kills people the other brings pleasure. Oh God she has a dildo!!! Oh God he purchased a blow-up doll and DVD’s!! Run for the hills. Get over yourselves. If a couple wants to walk into a store and buy whips, chain, and all the other interesting things that they can so be it. Are they affecting you? No!

People protest based on moral decay! Here look in the mirror you are the cause of it as much as anyone. Deal with it; this is the world we built not just me. The protesters say they sell to minors, again wrong. The Bars, Clubs, and the Stores all card and if you are 18 you are asked to leave. I have been there and been carded. Face facts most people that are protesting the Love Shack, The Pink Ponie, and all the others have never been into one. You want moral decay look at how you are raising your children to look down at others.

The sex industry whether it is prostitution or a store like the love shack is doing the world a favor, and taking a risk to do so. Rapes have gone DOWN in Las Vegas since they have legalized it. What does that say? What about the people that for whatever reason are not attractive to other people or do not have the social skills to entertain people why should they not have a place to help them create their fansty and make them feel good about themselves?

The people who waste their time protesting these businesses are just sad. If they would put as much effort in to their own families, their schools, and simply their own lives maybe just maybe some of the issues that do effect them like violence, kids shooting each other, drugs, and other issues would go down.
The short of it is this places are not doing anything harmful, people may not like them but no one is holding a gun to anyone head to go into them. People may not like the why they look in a shopping plaza, by a church, or by some other institution, and that is their opinion and opinions do not make laws. In some cases these businesses were there first before a church or a strip mall, in which cases people knew what they were building by.

In closing I just want to say that the human body is a wonderful thing a true work of art and these businesses are just celebrating this fact, why condemn them for it?

By Tertius

March 4, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

Good points. Sex is sinfully cheapened and degraded and perverted when it’s a commercial exploit. Churches should do more to address the proper role of sex: joyfully in the commitment of marriage. But even that message cannot be divorced from the Gospel which provides the fuller context for how people are to live before a holy God.

But yes, I stand with you that rather than moralistic legal action, churches and concerned citizens would do well to promote a positive, healthy, Christian view of joyful sex within marriage, and to with gentleness and grace address the life-destroying effects of sexual sins like pornography.

By Carol

March 4, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

I’ve got a solution to shut them down: have two people with running video cameras at all times the store is open. One filing the licence plates of the cars who come in, and go out, and one filing the patrons entering and leaving. That way, if someone is a registered sex offender and is patronizing the place, the evidence is there to send them back to jail. So really 2 problems are solved! Less sex offenders on the streets in SS, and less people who are closet sex offenders, which would entirely shut the place down!

By Carol

March 4, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

I’ve got a solution to shut them down: have two people with running video cameras at all times the store is open. One filing the licence plates of the cars who come in, and go out, and one filming the patrons entering and leaving. That way, if someone is a registered sex offender and is patronizing the place, the evidence is there to send them back to jail. So really 2 problems are solved! Less sex offenders on the streets in SS, and less people who are closet sex offenders, which would entirely shut the place down!

By MW

March 4, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

bameroni,

Please give me a break! Please don’t compare this trash to the local church based on sales tax revenue. Poor argument, please try again.

By RevIke

March 4, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this

Remember, You can have sex in Sandy Springs, Just don’t use gadgets or tell your neighbors.

By Carol

March 4, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

JPW,

Because exploitation of women is not healthy sex.

If we showed men being victimized and raped, you be against it for sure…

By harold

March 4, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

IF THE AJC DIDNT DRUM THIS UP, THERE WOULDNT BE NO PROTESTORS. AJC IS THE GUILTY PARTY.

By curiouser and curiouser

March 4, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

Jim, if the citizens of Sandy Springs want to patronize these establishments, who are you to say they can’t? The entire premise of a “free” country is exactly that: “freedom”. If the establishments weren’t welcome, they WOULD die out from lack of business. Except they aren’t dying out. That tells me you’re in the minority on this one, huh, and the Sandy Springs residents do welcome these establishments.

(BTW: The correct answer is “You aren’t ANYONE to say they can’t, and so you should STFU, GBTW, and quit trying to dictate others’ actions based on moral pronouncements from your personal sky fairy.”)

By Pat

March 4, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this

Come on, let’s focus on something that really matters. Why is the American society so afraid of sex, when everyone does it, wants to do it, and wants to watch it. These places are in business zones and not across the street from a school. I don’t see any strippers in windows - like Amsterdam - so what’s the problem. We have no compassion in this country for the exact human desire that brought us here. And sex in church, within the sanctity of marriage, who cares.

By Carol

March 4, 2008 12:47 PM | Link to this

Pat, My parents were married, not engaging in orgies, with mutilations, whips, chains and the like.

Last time I checked, I am still an American and I have a right to protest anything I like (at least until the one of the two Christian-hating Communists get elected this Fall!)…

By Steve

March 4, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this

Only in this backwards hick state would we even be having this discussion.

Last time I checked:

a: this is a free country b: children aren’t allowed in the stores c: sex is not bad, or evil, or naughty. Honestly. d: it brings in tax income e: sex toys spice up boring married and single sex lives f: videos keep folks from looking elsewhere for sex

Get a Grip and Join the 21st Century.

By gttim

March 4, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Yeah, because there are not more important issues we should be concerned about. Sandy Springs incorporated because they were tired of Fulton County spending money in ways they did not approve of and making laws they did not like. So now Sandy Springs is going to spend money on things most of it citizens do not care about and make laws that most of its citizens do not want. Nice!

BTW, you can get much better prices over the internet, but by buying in person you get to make sure everything is the correct size.

Was it Dear Abby or Ann Landers who asked a minister if it was alright to have sex before church? The minister said it was fine as long as you did not block the isle. We need more people who do not take things so seriously.

By rt

March 4, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

What do you want to bet that some of those same bilble thumpers are back tonight as patrons. Remember, bible thumpers, CHOIR BOYS ALL TALK SOONER OR LATER. The lube is on the left when you go in.

By get a life

March 4, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

The bed of the married is undefiled. Me and my husband who are both Christans were just in the Love Shack 2 weeks ago! and the night ended wonderfully!! People need to mind there business about what others choose to do or incorporate in their bedrooms. At least we can tell who’s unhappy and who’s sex life is boring. If a couple chooses to watch porn together or whatever that is their decision and no one has a right to say what or what GROWN people should or should not be doing. As for the sex offenders, would you rather then get a porn movie or go prey on some kid again? I say get a porn get yourself off and leave the babies alone!

By Carol

March 4, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

Steve, BS, Every sex offender has 2 things in his house (prove me wrong, and I’ll believe you): 1.Running Water 2.PORN

By Steve

March 4, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

Carol, My parents had a codependent alcoholic marriage, so what’s your point? Who cares what your or my parents did. This is the 21st century.

Evolve.

By Carol

March 4, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

Steve, BS, Every sex offender has 2 things in his house (prove me wrong, and I’ll believe you): 1.Running Water 2.PORN

By Conga

March 4, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

Just like the Sunday liquor debate, if you don’t like naked women gyrating in front of you then don’t visit a strip club. Just like if you don’t want to drink on Sunday then you don’t have to buy alcohol-but let us who want-should be able to on Sundays, don’t tell me what I can and can’t do just because you don’t agree with the majority!

By Carol

March 4, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

Get a Life,

So the Ten Commandments are optional to others but not you and your husband? I don’t get it(??)

By Carol

March 4, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

Get a Life,

So the Ten Commandments are optional to others but not you and your husband? I don’t get it(??)

By Carol

March 4, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

Steve,

I don’t want to evolve back into an animal: that’s why they call us “civilized”. we can reason, we have self-control (??)…

By 1 more thing

March 4, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this

look at some of these women in the line with the pickets. That will give you an idea of the type of woman that’s protesting this place.

Old - Angry - Fat -Hillary Clinton Supporters.

You don’t see any long legged - fantastic body - gorgeous - hot women protesting - do ya?

That’s the problem - these women gave up on sex - years ago. Would you wanna have sex with any of these women in the picture.

They let themselves go - and have no sex life! They are otta shape and disgusting.

Because their sex life stinks - they want to crawl in your bedroom window, and make sure your not having any fun either!

GET A LIFE HONEY!

GET A GYM MEMBERSHIP AND A MAKEOVER WHILE YOUR AT IT!

Victoria’s Secret does not come in XXXL

By Steve

March 4, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

Carol, guess what - I’m not a sex offender and I have porn and running water in my house. What is your point?

What is wrong with people in Georgia? It’s like you people don’t think.

By Concerned

March 4, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

Perhaps those of you who claim that the Love Shack is operating legally should do THEIR homework before saying the holy rollers should live and let live. Also they should learn of the dangerous “activities” that take place in the Love Shack locations. In reality, residents don’t want to draw sexual predators into their neighborhoods. I am not implying that all patrons are predators, but that places like this are a draw for them and fuels their fire for the perverted. I appreciate the article, but there will always be those who see no reason to resist this base type of entertainment. The best we can do is be sure they are operating legally. The Johns Creek location is still open even though they lost the court battle to remain open. I’m not sure what is up with law enforcement there, but Mr. Cornetta (Love Shack owner) has ZERO respect for the laws of the land.

By Carol

March 4, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

1 More Thing:

What do YOU look like?

I’m not fat…do you want me to be fat so you’re right? Most gorgeous women I know agree, but they are working. I’d be there myself, except I have to work as well. Those people have a right to protect their children, grandchildren, etc. from sex perverts.

By CommonSenseNotSoCommon

March 4, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

Those wonderful holy-ghost-filled-saved-&-sanctified folks in Sandy Springs aren’t buying novelty toys! They’re hitting their neigbors and paying for the real thing on Ponce-De-Leon, Metropolitan Ave (formerly Stewart Avenue), Ashby Street. They can also be found on cheating on their spouses having same sex affairs online and having rendez-vous at high end hotels. So they have no need for the novelty toys!

To all I say - Let’s go shopping in Sandy Springs! Hell - I am going to buy something for my wife today!!!

By jimmy k

March 4, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

These prudish fundys don’t have anything better to do than protest a legal business offering legal products to people who can choose of their own free will to enter the store or not. They are pathetic, miserable worms. Of course, when someone is convinced “God told me to do X” then no amount of logic or reason can disuade them. The protesters would be far more likely to initiate physical force against other people than the customers at Love Shack. Perhaps the FBI would do better to get the licence plates of the signholders and see if they are part of other dangerous groups such as Operation Rescue and the Christian Identity movement.

By Carol

March 4, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this

Concerned:

VERY well put. According to Steve, you must not be from Georgia, as you can think!

“residents don’t want to draw sexual predators into their neighborhoods. I am not implying that all patrons are predators, but that places like this are a draw for them and fuels their fire for the perverted.”

By CommonSenseNotSoCommon

March 4, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

They can’t even find someone to have sex with them fro money. These are the very people who are in dire need of these businesses.

By Steve

March 4, 2008 1:19 PM | Link to this

Last I checked, these stores weren’t in “neighborhoods” but were in business districts.

I’m beginning to realize that conservatives live in fear about EVERYTHING.

By Carol

March 4, 2008 1:19 PM | Link to this

Jimmy,

Physical force? Nope…just a nice video tape that I can turn into the FBI looking for sexual predators violating their probation terms.

By Katie

March 4, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

Carol, are you sure your parents don’t have any whips or chains? How do you really know? Do you watch them have sex? What people choose to do behind their closed doors is THEIR business and no one else’s, including their children. Who knows, maybe your parents do get a little freaky and you just don’t know it. Afterall, you shouldn’t watching, now should you.

By Gimme Yo Dolla

March 4, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this

The notion that perverts are ONLY going to the Loveshack and putting their neighborhoods at risk is stupid. I would think a restaurant like McDonald’s where kids play outside would be of greater concern than some store selling adult movies

By Carol

March 4, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

Katie,

whatever they did was between them and fine, as long as it didn’t involve anyone else (or watching anyone else)…sex is meant to be experienced…

Are you cool with women being degraded like animals and exploited? You don’t sound like a true feminist to me.

By No ones business

March 4, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

Carol You said

*Because exploitation of women is not healthy sex.

If we showed men being victimized and raped, you be against it for sure…*

Are you saying there aren’t men in porns, or are you saying the women in the porn’s don’t like getting paid to ride a 10’ C**? Why do you care what people buy or do in their own homes? Take a look at the Catholics, their highest ranked leader f*** underage choirboys and you and use religion to justify your invasion of others privacy. So if we get ride of these places you think we will get rid of sex offenders? I say we get rid of religions and there would be less wars and children who get their salads tossed.

On another note, when I was younger and attended church, I was getting more than when I was in College, go figure.

By Katie

March 4, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

Carol, I wasn’t attacking you, just asking how you really knew what your parents do/did.
First, the people making the porn movies are paid porn actors—they do it by choice.
Second, I value most non human animals more than humans so if a human chooses to degrade themselves, once again, they do it by choice. Sex is the oldest industry in the world, sex sells. If it didn’t, people wouldn’t do it. If people didn’t want dildos, there wouldn’t be stores selling them. It’s kind of a supply/demand market, don’t you think? I don’t think it really has anything to do with feminism. Since you are obviously against the Love Shack, my advice to you would be to not shop there. By not giving them your business you are making your point. But why try to stop others from enjoying their sex life with toys, movies etc.., even if it differs from yours? Your fight against sexual predators is commendable, however, you’d have better luck finding a sexual predator at a local library or park.

By Katie

March 4, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this

Carol, I wasn’t attacking you, just asking how you really knew what your parents do/did.
First, the people making the porn movies are paid porn actors—they do it by choice.
Second, I value most non human animals more than humans so if a human chooses to degrade themselves, once again, they do it by choice. Sex is the oldest industry in the world, sex sells. If it didn’t, people wouldn’t do it. If people didn’t want dildos, there wouldn’t be stores selling them. It’s kind of a supply/demand market, don’t you think? I don’t think it really has anything to do with feminism. Since you are obviously against the Love Shack, my advice to you would be to not shop there. By not giving them your business you are making your point. But why try to stop others from enjoying their sex life with toys, movies etc.., even if it differs from yours? Your fight against sexual predators is commendable, however, you’d have better luck finding a sexual predator at a local library or park.

By Casey

March 4, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

How many little Mom & Pop stores go out of business because there is not enough people spending money. Do the same thing, just don’t go. People will get tired of driving from other towns eventually.

By In addition.....

March 4, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

Pssst. You can buy all your naughty little do-dads online and have them sent directly to your home or post office box—no questions asked. You think sexual predators don’t know this?

By Mark

March 4, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

The people who oppose adult toy stores are the same ones who are too old to have sex. It’s simply jealousy. They’re to ignorant to realize that if it wasn’t for their parents rolling in the hay, they would just be a stain in a pair of panties.

By Steve

March 4, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

People are so worried about sexual predators and their children. Worry more about the guy talking on his cell phone and not paying attention to his driving - your children are at 100 times more risk of harm from bad drivers then from sexual predators.

By No ones business

March 4, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this

Sorry, I intended to type “highest ranked leaders” (plural) not leader A.K.A the POPE. I would go to hell for that one.

By No ones business

March 4, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this

Sorry, I intended to type “highest ranked leaders” (plural) not leader A.K.A the POPE. I would go to hell for that one.

By Patrick

March 4, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

Why are people so afraid of their own bodies? There is nothing wrong with enjoying your body. If you believe there is that is your right, but once again keep your laws off my body! Last time I checked me renting a porno or buying sex toy had ZERO affect on anyone else.

By Aceyman

March 4, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this

It’s stupidity like these protests that make me ashamed to say those infamous three words: “I’m from Atlanta.”

The rest of the country thinks we’re all uneducated bumpkins thanks to people like this, so I must tip my cap and say “Thanks!” to all these ignorant fundies. I’m glad they are out there to ensure the south never becomes the cultural or intellectual equal of the rest of the country.

Pat yourself on the back people for a job well done.

By Patrick

March 4, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this

Why are people so afraid of their own bodies? There is nothing wrong with enjoying your body. If you believe there is that is your right, but once again keep your laws off my body! Last time I checked me renting a porno or buying sex toy had ZERO affect on anyone else. As much as these bible thumpers want to try and make the case, everyone who frequents these places is not a pedophile or sexual deviant.

By Steve

March 4, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this

I don’t get it. Sandy Springs has a PLETHORA of issues to deal with, and the last worry should be a strip join and 3 stores that sell porno movies.

What about traffic on Roswell Road? What about unchecked sprawl? What about your schools? What about section 8 housing issues and related crime?

By Singlemom

March 4, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

So, apparently, sex is bad…sex is gross and should be banned. Come on people…this is so stupid. I would love to go to the town hall meeting and ask the counsel and the citizens if they masterbate, fornicate or fantisize at all. There is no way you can tell me that these people who wholeheartedly believe that this place really is that bad. So what if there are fake penises and vaginas in there…or movies of people having sex….we all do it, we are all products of it…so what is wrong?? Why do these places always have to be so seedy?? Because the uptight citizens brigade has to make sex seem as if it is dirty…wrong and should be a shameful act. The only reason they are around is because of wives that won’t put out, so men have to sneak away and hide to get videos or go watch them..and the ones with video booths are so shady because the guys aren’t getting laid at home, so they have to let some strange man take care of his business….thus putting themselves at risk.

There is nothing wrong with these places, there is nothing wrong with sex….isn’t that why we are all here anyway??? Give me a break, if you notice the people that are so far against it are the uptight women who force their men to go into sexual hiding and travel across counties to go find a privately hidden adult store so that can look at something to remember what a naked body and what sex looks like. And the men who are so far against it…are just lying so that their woman wont get mad at them.

Give me a break people……if you aren’t sexually satisfied in your own relationship, then that is your problem. For those that need these kinds of places to hide from a fridged vanilla wife that won’t put out or do anything adventerous, then you have no one to blame but yourself….for those of us that are single…this is a form of safe sex. So shut your mouth people and do a little moaning of your own and maybe you won’t be so concerned with the rest of us that use these places as forms of spice in our sex life. They are not harbouring pedifiles….they are harbouring your husband who can’t get any because you won’t give it up once in a while. Maybe if you went in one then you would see that it isnt that bad.

By singlemom

March 4, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

…and by vanilla wife I mean a woman who is plain…wont do anything adventerous of the least bit kinky…..

By SKINFAN

March 4, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

Hey Jim, aer you that prudish?? Do you think that those who patronize these establishments are forced to go? No. They are independent thinking individuals who make a choice to go there. The establishments legally obtained business licenses and have set there businesses up accordingly. It’s numbed up dolts like you that make people WANT to go to these places. Relax a bit and enjoy. If you’re married, its a great place to go and spice up your marriage. If you and your siginicant other go there, its a great place to spice up your relationship. Oh and Jim there are Gays and Lesbians who go there as well….horrors!!! Let the businesses stay. If you don’t want to go there, then don’t go.

By SKINFAN

March 4, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

Hey Jim, aer you that prudish?? Do you think that those who patronize these establishments are forced to go? No. They are independent thinking individuals who make a choice to go there. The establishments legally obtained business licenses and have set there businesses up accordingly. It’s numbed up dolts like you that make people WANT to go to these places. Relax a bit and enjoy. If you’re married, its a great place to go and spice up your marriage. If you and your siginicant other go there, its a great place to spice up your relationship. Oh and Jim there are Gays and Lesbians who go there as well….horrors!!! Let the businesses stay. If you don’t want to go there, then don’t go.